He Stopped Texting Me – Why Men Ghost & What to Do Next

So you’ve met the man of your dreams online, exchanged texts, and shared everything with him—only to be left wondering, “Why did he stop responding to me?”

You thought he was different. You bonded over music, food, and books. You were beginning to believe he might be "the one"—and then, out of nowhere, he ghosted you.

Don’t worry, you’re not alone. Women everywhere, including some of the most successful and desirable, have been ghosted by men who once seemed infatuated with them. Even the Duchess of Sussex was once ignored by a man who initially seemed interested!

So, if you're questioning why he disappeared, remember: you're not the first, and unfortunately, you won’t be the last.

It’s Human Nature to Stop Responding

One possible answer to “Why did he stop responding?” is simple human nature. Before you get ready to crucify me, I’m not making excuses for him. But according to psychologist Niloo Dardashti:

“It’s human nature. You feel something very strongly, and then after you actually get to know the person, you see their real self, and things change. We've lost the ability to just say, ‘I’m sorry, I’m not interested’ or actually break up with someone.”

How sad is that?

She goes on to explain that ghosting doesn’t necessarily mean he didn’t like you. In fact, the opposite could be true.

“I think it’s very likely that you could have feelings for someone and just be so overloaded with choices that you aren’t in tune with what’s really right for you.”

So, it’s possible that he was simply overwhelmed. Instead of dealing with his emotions, he took the easy way out—he vanished.

He Stopped Responding to Keep His Options Open

Another frustrating reason he might have ghosted you? He thinks it keeps his options open.

As ridiculous as it sounds, some guys believe that by not officially ending things, they can walk back into your life whenever they want. And in many cases, they’re right.

If he had outright dumped you, you’d have closure and could move on. But by disappearing, he leaves you questioning what happened—and if he returns before you fully heal, you might let him back in.

🚩 Beware: This is a major red flag. Narcissists often ghost their victims, keeping them emotionally hooked while avoiding commitment.

He Stopped Responding Because He’s Just Not That Into You

It’s not what anyone wants to hear, but sometimes the answer to “Why did he stop responding?” is as simple as this: he wasn’t that into you.

If he felt no real connection or chemistry, he likely ghosted you because he never took things seriously in the first place.

And while that stings, remember: it’s better to be ghosted early than to waste years in a one-sided relationship.

He May Have Liked You Too Much

Ironically, sometimes a man stops responding because he likes you more than he’s comfortable with.

If he isn’t emotionally ready for a serious relationship, the intensity of his feelings might scare him off. Instead of facing his emotions, he runs.

I hate to call anyone a coward, but let’s be honest—if a guy opens your heart and then disappears, the word fits.

The Real Takeaway: It’s His Loss, Not Yours

At the end of the day, the real question isn’t “Why did he stop responding?”—it’s “Why does it matter?”

His silence is an answer in itself. He wasn’t the one for you.

Instead of focusing on the guy who ghosted, shift your attention to the one who won’t be afraid to love you. Because the right person won’t leave you wondering.